If you follow us on Twitter, you may have seen that I recently asked what people really value in their business partners. What do they have that you don't? I have been thinking a lot about this recently and also counting my blessings that I have a business partner at all.

We belong to a great little Mums in Business network and we are good at sharing our problems and frustrations. However, I often find myself thinking that we don't have many (apart from the time - as in none of it - problem). This is not because we are superspecial, it is simply that there are two of us (whilst many of our fellow M-in-B-ers run things on their own). The collaboration and creation of something together is extemely satisfying as is the opportunity to share our successes. It's all every well trying to enthusiastically tell your husband about your recent victories in the washable nappy market but for some reason (can't think why) he just doesn't seem that interested, or at least able to share in the excitement. But when you've been working with someone, solving problems with someone, backing the other person up, the champagne just tastes so much sweeter.


There's also the 'filling in the grey areas' aspect, without which I don't think I would get any sleep. I absolutely hate the telephone. I think it's possibly because I feel I'm intruding on someone, putting them on the spot, whereas if someone isn't interested in e.g. the NapNap Voucher, they can always just ignore an email. So sometime I get to not telephone as my partner will do it. Phew. And happily we have different skill sets (pleeeease don't make me do the accounting) so we tend to mop up all the tasks without really noticing. We don't really delegate as it is generally pretty obvious who should be doing what.

So, the moral of the tale is, if you are thinking about starting a business, ask yourself whether you can find someone to do it with. It makes for a much more relaxing time (because you aren't responsible for everything) and then there's also someone else to drink champagne with when it all goes right - very important!

 
 
I’m pretty exhausted after all the excitement last week, what with the launch of the NapNap Voucher just in time for Real Nappy Week, our shop going live and the Little Green Family Show on Saturday.  Where to start? In fact, I’m just going to say one thing and that is - I’m feeling the love.......

... for all the people I have met over the last week : retailers, the stallholders, the lady on the council who deals with hall bookings, the Transition Tots dad who helped clear a path.... I could go on.  But what marvellous people there are out there on the green fields of Letchworth and beyond. I am feeling extremely buoyed up by all the goodwill and effort that so many seem prepared to expend on fighting the green fight. Here are some names to shout from the rooftops: Stephanie (of course), Keith, Lawrence and Zora, Ruth, Amanda, Laura, John, Ian, Catherine and probably many more. This one’s for you.

[Blows kisses and exits]

 
 
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The other night I watched The Apprentice. I really should not have, I know, but it was one of those evening....and it reminded me of my previous working life. I was no banker in the city but my workplace, like many others, was full of politics, pettiness, greedy bosses and obnoxious colleagues (and sometimes all at once).
What about now? NapNap is 2 friends working and having a laugh together. We work while the kids play together and we have met some fantastic people along the way.
The other businesses we work with are mostly run by mums and dealing with them has been hugely enjoyable: they are open to new ideas and passionate about what they do.
This confirm the idea I read not long ago that happiness is in part doing meaningful work (something you care about) and having a social circle of friends.
So a big thank you and well done to all the mums and dads out there being in charge of their own life and I hope they feel as satisfied and happy about it as I do.
And have a look at www.actionforhappiness.com , a movement of people committed to building a happier society and dedicated to social change.

 
 
Found out today that I (Rebecca as in one half of NapNap) have been selected as a finalist in our regional newspaper's community awards in the Great and Green category. Despite the fact that little old me with my humble little doings of pre-school gardening club etc is up against a private school, I am hopeful. I just hope the judges can look at achievements relatively. Someone with a toddler and baby juggling all that that entails is surely not supposed to manage stuff of the same proportions as a big business..... But even if I don't win I get a lovely dinner out courtesy of the Comet and its sponsors. Quite how I'll manage the feeding is a mystery at present (as is how I'll find a dress to cover up the six months-post-baby-still-a-bit-chubby-chub). Anyway, if it's celebrating people who give to their community then I'm definitely happy to raise a glass.